SEX EDUCATION – LESSON
ONE – MASTERBATION
Semen is produced continuously in the reproductory system, during the young age between 15 and 35. The quantity produced per day is maximum in the age group 18 to 25 and may extend to the age of 90 too, in small measures. With good food the beginning may be as early as twelve.
Like urine, it has to be got rid off periodically. During school days, when our mind is concentrated on studies, semen is discharged during sleep, followed by sweet, erotic dreams, on full moon or new moon days or near those days.
When the level of semen increases, penis gets easily excited and erection occurs. We do exercise it for some minutes and the thick, slightly sour, fluid with a tell tale odour comes out, when the climax is reached. This is a natural process. I have seen monkeys do it. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
In tribal societies, where girls and boys play about freely, the may indulge in mock sexual intercourse and afterwards it may become a real one with proper discharge of semen. Among those people, the boys may never do masturbation.
I wish sex is free among adolescents, who should be instructed to take proper precautions, in the schools. It is desirable to have separate classes for males and females. This will allow free discussion.
They are not interested in sex as such.
They want children, our love and sense of security. Petting,
kissing and all such things are welcome. Hard sex depends on their mood.
A fat book on female sex states that 90 % of women with two
children, just do not need sex. The movement inside the vaginal canal, which we
enjoy much, may even irritate them.
There is a lot of ignorance among boys about satisfying the
female, as if they are sex bombs. Well, there is a minority of women, who like
a variety of men for their enjoyment. They and the frigid type are in minority.
A popular myth is that, by increasing the duration of
intercourse, from the time of insertion of the penis, till the discharge
of semen, we can satisfy women. What I believe is that she must be warmed up,
first. This may take time. Once she is heated up, she will attain climax in
record time.
Many people do not know the difference between vulva and vagina.
All things covered by the lips (flaps) are referred to as vulva. Inside, above
the vaginal opening, is a miniscule penis, which in some cases may be some what
bigger in size. Touch it, and the woman’s body becomes sexually
electrified. It is called the clitoris (the boat man), the whole vulva being
the boat.
Our body is a chemical factory, producing millions of ckemical
compounds every second. The full moon/new moon effect, in the context of
producing hormones for creating the sexy mood in females, is not yet studied. I
have noticed it from personal experience, after I wrote an essay in my blog,
about the influence of gravity. If you try it, you will believe me !
One has to be sensitive in such matters. Soybean helps in
reguvenation of the system.
Poor sex workers have to pretend to be enjoying sex, for our
satisfaction, though they curse us, even when we enjoy sex !
Girls have no facility for washing their vulva in the school.
Urine trapped in the lips of the vulva breeds bacteria. To avoid urinary
infection, parents must ensure that they wash it meticulously with water mixed
with dettol.
Namboodiri girls used to clean their private parts with turmeric
paste, obtained by rubbing turmeric on wet stone, and then wash it off, while
taking bath in the pond. It is a very effective germicide.
It is desirable to have a room in the terrace, where all can have
nude sun bath. The sun light will destroy bacteria. The skin will make vitamin
D in the presence of sunlight. If you smear the body with coconut oil, olive
oil etc. it is all the more better.
SEX EDUCATION-3 – WANT A BABY?
First, brush up our knowledge of biology.
There are two ovaries with each one studded with thousands of ova of various stages of growth. Every 27 days, one ovum (egg) matures and get detached from the ovary. The next one will be from the other ovary; thus there is a continuous chain of eggs, coming to the uterus, except during pregnancy. This is called ovulation.
Even if not fertilized by a sperm from the semen, the ovum tries to develop a rudimentary placenta. Then the whole thing is thrown out of the uterus. This is the monthly, bloody discharge.
During ovulation the temperature of the woman’s body shows a slight increase. So the first requirement is to prepare a permanent temperature chart, with which we can even predict the next menses time.
The ovum remains alive for some five days. The sperms in the semen, too, have a life span of two days. So if sexual intercourse is done during ovulation, pregnancy chances are more. Care should be taken to take the temperature of the woman, before she gets up from the bed, without taking any food, not even bed coffee. Three days after the ovulation, chances of pregnancy are rare. So sex should be confined to the day of ovulation, so that maximum accumulation of semen can be ensured. After the first intercourse, keep up the tempo for two more days.
The calendar can be useful for birth control too. Avoid sex during the week, beginning from three days before and ending three days after ovulation.
ROLE OF SOYBEAN
Apart from improving general health, regular intake of soybean will ensure better health of sex organs, including sufficient build up of semen and increase in the number of sperms in the semen. In case of hyperinsulinamia (see my blog Protein power), eggs in the ovaries whither away, causing infertility. If starchy food is totally avoided and a diet of soybean, eggs, meat, milk, vegetables etc. strictly followed, the insulin level will come down. The ovaries will retain the ova and thus help in pregnancy.
TENSION
In modern life, the man is subjected to continuous pressure of work, resulting in temporary impotence. The favourable days of the menses calendar should be ear marked for tension free sex. Understanding between husband and wife is a must.
Yoga may help.
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